Boost your libido with aphrodisiac massages… Nothing like tickling the other where he least expects it to arouse desire. Advice from, seperte and author of the book In bed, citizens!.
As a preamble, before any massage, Julia Palombe reminds you that it is good to follow the tendons, and to vary the pace as well as the power of your touch. Massage with your hands but also why not with the breath, the kisses, the tongue ? Use your whole body, in harmony with one another.
Massage around the sexual parts
Without ever touching them… It’s a bit like playing cat and mouse endlessly. The important thing here is tostir up desire, to increase the pressure and the erection (of the penis and the clitoris). Suggest it could be scorching hot but delay taking action. Give him the tantric massage too, and see what it feels like. In short, use this massage zone as a natural stimulant, upon waking up for example. Sometimes it’s also a good way to speed things up a bit to turn a nap into a naughty plan …
Massage the contour of the buttocks
We know that the buttocks are erogenous zones known and recognized since the dawn of time, or almost. Nothing could be more exciting than squeezing his / her buttocks in the middle of a frolic when he / she is on you or having his / her bottom touched in the middle of the action. How about massaging her buttocks before touching anything else? Start by touching them, go around the area, massage them gently before being more direct. In short, beat around the bush before making him understand what is really on your mind, or elsewhere.
Massage under the armpits or behind the knees
Known to be sensitive (understand ticklish) areas, these two parts of the body can also be particularly erotic. Under the armpits, close to the breasts (men also have them) and not far from the other strategic area of the neck (try to kiss it gently in the neck to see), the area sometimes also plays an aphrodisiac role due to the smell that emanates from it: we even speak ofolfactory eroticism. Behind the knees, the nerve center par excellence, do not go with your fingertips, go for it frankly. Pleasure increased tenfold, promised.
Massaging the wrists
We hold them often, we handcuff them sometimes, but we massage them less regularly. However, nothing is more effective than a wrist massage to make him / her climb the curtains a few minutes later. Typically this is the kind of erotic massage that brings you a little closer to the other with this crazy power to strengthen your feelings towards them. Try ! Ditto for the hands (especially the fingers) and the arms.
Massage the feet
More famous, and notoriously erotic, you can also try the feet. Be creative: massage them, taste them, masturbate the other with your feet … For those who would like to wash their partner first before a massage (feet or other for that matter), do not hesitate to transform this step into a ritual: a small basin of soapy water, a bath sponge, oils, and voila …