The range of female sexual pleasure is vast. Several paths lead to the thrill. We tell you several to finally get there.
Female enjoyment: caressing the clitoris
The clitoris is not always easy to understand for those who do not have one! Moreover, it is not limited to what we see: 9 / 10ths are internal and therefore invisible. In the center there is the glans clitoris, which gets fat when excited. It would be endowed with 8,000 sensitive sensors. But that doesn’t make him any easier to enjoy. 55% of men who stroke it fail.
To enjoy, you have to take it easy with a soft, but firm finger, if possible moist. You have to start by turning around, to coax it. Usually, he doesn’t stay intimidated for long. Once it has rolled up from its hood of skin, it can be stroked in a back and forth motion up and down alternating with circular motions around the glans. When we have found the tempo, we have to keep it! 5 minutes may be enough to make him explode with happiness.
Female enjoyment: cunnilingus
The name of this oral-genital caress comes from the Latin “cunnus”, con, that is to say female sex and “lingere”, to lick. It designates the fact of stimulate the vulva with the tongue, lips or mouth.
This practice holds an important place in female sexuality, because the preferred target of cunnilingus is the glans of the clitoris whose sensitivity is equivalent to that of the glans penis.
To enjoy it, you have tothat the tongue or the lips which lavish this caress, alternate their movements, slow and lively. Are creeping in everywhere. It is also necessary that the one who receives it has a good dose of confidence in herself and in her partner. She must not only let go, but also concentrate on that part of the body only. It takes a little practice. If cunnilingus is not the expression of a desire or a sincere desire of the partner, it is not very exciting.
Female enjoyment: stimulation of the G-spot
This is the erogenous zone located on the inside of the vagina (towards the belly), about 2.3 cm deep. It is highly vascularized and consists of a network of nerve fibers. The German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg was the first in 1950 to describe this vaginal area as erogenous. Hence the name point “G” in homage to the gentleman!
To enjoy, you have to be good at anatomical geography! The point is located at a very specific place in the vagina. It is recommended to discover it on your own, exploring and stimulating yourself. Let’s say in short, that the G spot exults when it is caressed for a long time by a finger, a penis or a sextoy, at different tempos.
But the G-spot also nests in the head. When you feel in tune with your partner, you react more to sensory stimuli emanating from the vagina. Note that when the G-spot is affected, it acts on glands that can emit fluid.
Female enjoyment: the strategic points of the vagina
The vaginal pleasure is linked to deep receptors buried in the muscle walls of the vaginal opening. They are sensitive to stretching, tightening, and pressure. The changes of position, during coitus, make it possible to stimulate all the strategic points of the area.
- Point “A”, located on the anterior side of the vagina, above point G.
- The “P” point, located on the posterior surface of the vagina, near the rectum.
- Point “C”, which is a point in the posterior cul-de-sac of the vagina.
To enjoy, you must have learned to know this area yourself by squeezing and loosening the prevaginal muscles on your fingers or an object. This “work” must be accompanied by movements of the pelvis and upper body. As the pleasure increases, you have to vary the range of motion of the body and breathe out through the belly.
Vaginal orgasm is learned through experience. It does not fall from the sky and is not the only fact of the virtuosity of a partner.
Published on April 14, 2021 in the journal Plos One, a scientific study has revealed the tricks of women to intensify their sexual pleasure during intercourse with vaginal penetration. Conducted among 3,017 American women aged 18 to 93, the study identified several techniques, to which the research team gave names.
- The most popular technique was the “angling”, That is to say the fact of move your hips to find a more adequate angle of penetration: 87.5% of respondents indicated that this technique increased their sexual pleasure.
- The other three techniques cited here, which each obtained at least 70% approval, were the “rocking”(Stay in contact with the other so that the clitoris is constantly solicited), the“shallowing”(Or superficial, which consists of a very shallow penetration at the entrance to the vagina), and the“pairing”(Stroking the clitoris during vaginal penetration).
For each technique, the participants specified the benefit they derived from these tips. The study indicates, for example, that 10% of those who appreciated the “shallowing”Stated that this increased their likelihood ofhave an orgasm, and a quarter said it was increasing the intensity of orgasms.
Deploring the few studies carried out on this subject, the researchers estimate in a communicated that this survey reveals the diversity of women’s sexual practices, far from the usual clichés.