Here are some ways to satisfy the complex and changing desires of expectant mothers and continue to have fulfilling sexuality while waiting for the baby to arrive.
Offer him tenderness
“I want affection and tenderness rather than sex. That’s why it goes much better if my lover starts by pampering me, cuddling me. Little by little the desire rises. On the other hand, for them, it requires a little patience, ”says Cécile, who is due to give birth within two months.
It’s no secret that pregnant women are very sensitive, not to say susceptible and irritable at times during pregnancy. The genitals are swollen and very reactive, the sensations increased tenfold.
It is, therefore, necessary to adopt an appropriate attitude during this period, in this case, it is necessary to take it slowly. Arm yourself with patience and gentleness, give him hugs, massages with oils, embrace his curves, take the time to tame it, just wrap your arms around her for a cool time. Make love to her by thought for a change.
Think about oral sex
All say it is the royal moment for oral sex. Pregnant women appreciate the delicacy of this caress, it’s almost a relief when a tongue kisses those lips, it’s nice, it calms, and they like the little effort and the simplicity that this position offers.
They also like to reciprocate, because it is for them the way to please without putting too much strain on their sometimes cumbersome body.
Stand behind her
- The sleeping beauty position, which consists for the woman to put on her stomach and wait for it to come, is quite recommended during the first trimester of pregnancy because it allows the mother-to-be to rest (or even to fall asleep quietly, as the name l ‘indicated).
- In the second trimester, you will be able to practice doggy style, which will prevent your beautiful’s belly from being compressed and will allow you to find your bearings and your sensations.
- Finally, in the third trimester you will rather opt for udo spoon, pregnancy star position, it is particularly welcome at the end of the cycle. And yes! Sweetness and pleasure …
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This practice can lead to health complications, in a particularly microbial area. What is more, she is to be avoided in certain cases (risk of premature birth, twin pregnancy, dilated cervix). Only a doctor or a midwife is authorized to tell you.
Finally, tell yourself thata pregnant woman has a different relationship to her bodys, during this period and shortly thereafter. So, if your partner boycotts your antics a little because she doesn’t have the heart for it and/or is tired all the time, above all, don’t take it against you. It will pass! And the sensations will return: it’s like cycling, you can’t forget it!