The sex toy market is like many others: the supply is bloated and the competition fierce. However, some companies have already proven themselves when it comes to sex toys. Among them, the French company Dorcel, known for its Rabbit Orgasmic (around 60 euros), or its Geisha anal plug (around 30 euros); German companies Fun Factory (No. 1 in Europe) and Womanizer, which have become established values; or the Swedish Lelo, renowned for being qualitative and design.
The different types of sextoys for women
“There are plenty of them,” responds straight away a former employee of the Love store concept Passage du desire. I could not name them all, but there is something for all tastes, all types of pleasure sought, of all sizes. ”
Ancestral and essential, these sleeves with pleasure were initially created to “calm these hysterical-born” that are the women (lol). Over time, they evolved and sported more design like the Lilith. Yes, but here it is: when the manufacturers understood that women enjoy through the clitoris and that there was therefore more effective than a simple handle to bring them to orgasm, they then added to the traditional “stick”, a small external head to provide direct stimulation of the glans of the clitoris (in addition to that, indirect, caused by the friction of the dildo on the contours of the vulva and therefore the walls of the clitoris). The Rabbits and his colleagues (such as the Love gun for example) were born and clearly differentiated from their headless counterparts. It is probably not for nothing that the successful series Sex in the City put this particular toy in the spotlight!
Clitoral sex toys
From there, we finally created sextoys more suited to the pleasure of women. OMG! So what are the best on the market and why? Review of details with our specialist.
- The intuitive or vibrating friction rollers (100 euros at Lelo) are very popular. They follow the shape of the clitoris and therefore stimulate both the glans and the wings through contact with the lips and the outside of the vagina.
- The eggs with clitoral tip (which can be synchronized with music or triggered by the simple sound of the voice) also seem to be popular with women (count 100 euros).
- For those who need very strong sensations, the Magic wand (Around 70 euros at Dorcel), huge handle initially used by physiotherapists to untie muscles, causes extremely intense vibrations. This sex toy is really reserved for women with little sensitivity in the vulva.
The Womanizer revolution
The real change is the suction stimulators with the air pleasure technique, initiated by the Womanizer brand, and based on an ingenious system of micro-aspirations… Some even call them orgasm machines! “These toys are great,” continues our expert. The Lelo brand offers the Sona or the Sona Cruise (which combines suction and vibration). The Womanizer (without vibration) remains a benchmark in the field, with, again, plenty of models, more than 12 different intensities, etc. I only had rave reviews on those! “. It takes between 50 and 200 euros for these little wonders.
Of course, toys to stimulate other parts of the body are also available, such as anal plugs, etc. We focus here on sextoys dedicated to the clitoris and vagina.
Womanizer and other sucking sex toys: women testify
We have understood that these suction toys seem to be real orgasm machines… But how much do they cost? How to choose ? Responses from women.
Sometimes difficult beginnings
“The first few times I didn’t think it was crazy … I saw that something was going on, but I couldn’t manage to settle down well”, explains C. ”
And it is not E. who will contradict her: “Womanizer, I had trouble getting used to it. At first it is very strange, because it is a unknown sensation in an extremely sensitive area : the glans of the clit. ”
Then extraordinary sensations, unprecedented
“At one point it was the meeting, continues C. I did an hour and a half of Womanizer without stopping. I don’t have a lot of other sex toys, and the dildo is nice, but that has nothing to do with it: there is no such machine! ”
“It doesn’t look like a language or anything, it’s new. You are not on something that presses on your penis, it just surrounds the glans, it goes around … ”
“Personally, it causes me ants everywhere and I take great pleasure, but I do not enjoy with it”, explains C.
“I can cum in two minutes flat, but sometimes I make the pleasure last,” says another.
Warning: it’s addictive!
“After that it becomes addictive, underlines E., and it’s quite confusing from a relationship point of view. It will create new habits. If we are single, that can be a little dangerous, because it is difficult to do without. When you get so used to using a sextoy, it’s sometimes difficult to cum with a man… at least without that. ”
“Indeed, there is this notion of addiction, admits our specialist in sextoys: it becomes very mechanical, it takes up space in life. And then in absolute terms, if you really abuse it seriously, you can erase some small sensory sensors, ”she warns.
To be used alone or in pairs
These new generation sextoys are they so addictive that they might lead to less physical sex with a man? “It is true that men are often afraid that the sextoy will eclipse them, explains our sexperte. But you have to understand that it has nothing to do with it. Sex with someone is always very different. ”
Not to mention that these sex toys can be iintegrated into sexual relations with a partner. “You can use it alone or with two people!” I use it more with my lover than alone. It’s complementary, ”confirms L.
There you have it, if there are lots of sex toys for women, suction stimulators seem to stand out. It’s up to you to see if you want to test them or not. But in any case, find out before buying an intimate toy from specialists. In store or at a pink party, experts will help you find the one or those that best suit your desires.